"Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children;...wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is." Ephesians 5:1, 17
I would hope that you are following God to the best of your understanding. God entreats us to act like His children. God knows that if we operate in His wisdom, all will work out in His will. God wants you to know what His will is for you and how to operate in it. God tells you to to be followers of Him because God makes available for you all the components to accomplish what He called you to.
God tells us not to be unwise because God has made available internal wisdom through the Holy Spirit. Prayer and communication builds wisdom. Personal relationship with God creates an atmosphere where you can exchange your fleshly wisdom for godly wisdom. Understanding what the will of God is can be a joyful thing. The Lord is interested in giving to you everything you need to live your to the fullest. Take advantage of all that is available. Following God is a beautiful experience, not to be compared to anything. I hope you believe it."